- May 26, 2013 at 1:58 pm #392741
Ok knotties I DESPERATELY need advice right now!!
So our big day is 13 days away (EEEEEEKK!!!) and my mum just asked me if she can invite her new man…
FH and I have met him once and don’t get me wrong he is a nice guy and all.. but 13 days! and it means rearranging tables to include him and sorting out his food choices etc.
FH has already said he would prefer not to have to invite him as we are just so close to the day but my mum really wants him there and right now I just feel so torn..
I have no idea what to do…May 26, 2013 at 7:43 pm #392743
My instinct is just to invite him. The only work it really takes is to make a phone call to add a person to your mum’s table and tell them his food choice. Is there anything else to do? You could even tell your mum to organise it! I know you don’t want people there you don’t know, but he is obviously special to your mum, and your mum is special to you, so maybe it is worth making an exception.
I would explain to your mum that you would rather not have him in family photos, I’m sure she would understand that.
Best of luck for your wedding, let us know how it goes!
May 27, 2013 at 10:09 am #392783
I agree with Bec, I think invite him. If it was anyone else I would say no but because it’s your mum I think it would be nice for her to have him there.May 29, 2013 at 7:28 am #393439
Thank you Bec and jsbride but after a very long discussion with FH we decided not to invite him.
They have only been together a few weeks and from the beginning our rule is only guests in serious relationships can bring their partner.
And it would have been ALOT of work and rearranging to have him there as I am doing everything myself
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